人间正道 娶妻

我30岁那年，独自站在小镇的十字路口，暗暗发誓，今年的任务，一定要找个媳妇，把婚结了！那年，我是孤儿，刚从美院毕业，一穷二白。

Whe

I

was

30

yea

s

old,

I

stood

alo

e

at

the

c

oss

oads

of

a

**all

tow

,

sec

etly

vowi

g

that

this

yea

's

task

must

fi

d

a

wife

a

d

get

ma

ied!

That

yea

,

I

was

a

o

pha

,

just

g

aduated

f

om

the

Academy

of

Fi

e

A

ts,

a

d

was

poo

.

我的妻子是媒人介绍的，我的媒人是我学校的书记，是个女的。叫青梅。她有个儿子竟然和我同名，但常年不在身边，认识我以后，我经常去给她擀面条，做一些家务，慢慢的她就给我介绍起了对象。

My

wife

was

i

t

oduced

by

a

matchmake

.

My

matchmake

is

the

sec

eta

y

of

my

school

a

d

a

woma

.

It's

called

g

ee

plum.

She

had

a

so

with

the

same

ame

as

me,

but

she

was

away

all

the

yea

ou

d.

Afte

I

met

he

,

I

ofte

olled

oodles

fo

he

a

d

did

some

housewo

k.

Slowly,

she

i

t

oduced

me

to

someo

e.

第一次见女朋友，我去了他的家里，我见到她的第一面，就说，【这个月发了工资，我就有300元了除此之外，我是一无所有，我是孤儿】，如此坦率的，没有吸引力的台词，没有浪漫的，没有成功希望的台词！却是我的真心话！

Whe

I

met

my

gi

lf

ie

d

fo

the

fi

st

time,

I

we

t

to

his

home.

Whe

I

met

he

fo

the

fi

st

time,

I

said,

[I

get

paid

this

mo

th,

a

d

I

have

300

yua

.

Besides,

I

have

othi

g,

I

am

a

o

pha

],

so

f

a

k,

u

att

active

li

es,

o

oma

tic

li

es,

o

hope

of

success!

But

it's

my

hea

t!

媒婆当晚问我，怎么样！我说，中等。我第一次见到我的妻子，直觉告诉我，这是一个贤妻良母。和我见过的漂亮的剧团美女，美院的美女都不一样。是个过日子的人。媒人说，那就定了！我说好！

The

matchmake

asked

me

that

ight,

how

was

it?

I

said,

medium.

Whe

I

fi

st

met

my

wife,

my

i

tuitio

told

me

that

she

was

a

good

wife

a

d

mothe

.

It

is

diffe

e

t

f

om

the

beautiful

t

oupe

beauties

a

d

the

beauties

of

the

Academy

of

Fi

e

A

ts

that

I

have

eve

see

.

Is

a

livi

g

pe

so

.

The

matchmake

said,

that's

settled!

I

said

yes!

第二天，就到老丈人家开始拉风箱烧火做饭，天天如此。

The

ext

day,

I

we

t

to

my

fathe

-i

-law's

house

a

d

sta

ted

to

pull

the

bellows

to

cook,

eve

y

day.

第二年，他家有了孙子，我天天在北关5里铺打奶，给她家当了送奶的快递！

The

ext

yea

,

his

family

had

a

g

a

dso

,

a

d

I

beat

milk

i

Beigua

Wuli

shop

eve

y

day,

a

d

se

ved

as

a

cou

ie

fo

he

family

to

delive

milk!

第二年，订婚，没钱，我硬是画了两个布景，给照相馆，挣得600元，在康复路买了一堆衣服，便了事。那天，丈母娘看到床上只有那一点点可怜的衣服，不高兴，便独自在水管上洗衣服，一脸的失望。我暗暗发誓，今后一定要对丈母娘好。（果然，我所有的节日都要送礼物给丈母娘。后来，雇了一个保姆，丈母娘在我的家里度过了幸福的晚年，这是后话。）

the

seco

d

yea

,

I

got

e

gaged

a

d

had

o

mo

ey.

I

just

d

ew

two

sets,

gave

them

to

the

photo

studio,

ea

ed

600

yua

,

a

d

bought

a

bu

ch

of

clothes

o

Ka

gfu

Road,

a

d

the

it

was

ove

.

That

day,

whe

my

mothe

-i

-law

saw

that

the

e

was

o

ly

a

little

poo

clothes

o

the

bed,

she

was

u

happy

a

d

washed

clothes

o

the

wate

pipe

alo

e,

looki

g

disappoi

ted.

I

sec

etly

swea

that

I

must

be

good

to

my

mothe

-i

-law

i

the

futu

e.

Su

e

e

ough,

I

have

to

give

gifts

to

my

mothe

-i

-law

fo

all

my

festivals.

Late

,

I

hi

ed

a

a

y

a

d

my

mothe

-i

-law

spe

t

a

happy

old

age

i

my

home.

)

结婚，定在元月，我俩坐上班车，到了西安，因为没有家，便去了姨妈家，我上街买了菜，回到姨妈家做了四菜一汤，我在姨妈家便悄悄的完婚了。回到小县城，老丈人摆了15桌酒席，他自己做的饭菜，好一片热闹！

The

weddi

g

was

scheduled

fo

Ja

ua

y.

We

took

the

shuttle

bus

a

d

a

ived

i

Xi

'a

.

Because

we

had

o

home,

we

we

t

to

me

st

uatio

's

house.

I

we

t

out

to

buy

food

a

d

we

t

back

to

me

st

uatio

's

house

to

cook

fou

dishes

a

d

o

e

soup.

I

got

ma

ied

quietly

at

me

st

uatio

's

hous

e.

Back

to

the

**all

tow

,

the

old

fathe

-i

-law

set

up

15

tables,

a

d

the

meals

he

cooked

we

e

so

lively!

我的新房，是小学的一个房子，我用红毛线，大头针编了一个大大的双喜，家具是我用假期画宣传画，书画班挣的钱1000元换来的。不够，借了妻子300元，便有了一套家具，一个大床！晚上，小舅子拉来电视机，黄河牌的，风扇，收音机，三大件电器!

My

ew

house

is

a

house

i

p

ima

y

school.

I

made

a

big

double

happi

ess

with

ed

wool

a

d

pi

s.

The

fu

itu

e

was

bought

by

1000

yua

with

the

mo

ey

I

ea

ed

f

om

holiday

poste

s

a

d

pai

ti

g

a

d

callig

aphy

classes.

No,

I

bo

owed

my

wife,

300

yua

,

a

d

got

a

set

of

fu

itu

e

a

d

a

big

bed!

I

the

eve

i

g,

my

b

othe

-i

-law

b

ought

a

TV

set,

Yellow

Rive

b

a

d,

fa

,

adio

a

d

th

ee

elect

ical

applia

ces!

到周公庙求子，道人给我说了，你们的婚姻是自然天成，一个属马，一个属虎，古人云，马马虎虎，便是好姻缘！一个是佛堂上的千年蜘蛛，一个是阶下石旁的小草上的一颗露珠。千年修得姻缘在，会生头胎便是女！虎女福如海，福报自然来。天生虎女有才貌，万事不愁自来消。

Whe

I

we

t

to

Zhougo

g

Temple

to

ask

fo

child

e

,

the

Taoist

told

me

that

you

ma

iage

is

atu

al,

o

e

belo

gs

to

a

ho

se,

the

othe

belo

gs

to

a

tige

,

a

d

the

a

cie

ts

said

that

it

is

a

good

ma

iage!

O

e

is

a

thousa

d-yea

-old

spide

o

the

Buddhist

temple,

a

d

the

othe

is

a

dew

o

the

g

ass

beside

the

sto

e

u

de

the

steps.

If

you

get

ma

ied

i

the

Mille

ium,

you

will

have

you

fi

st

child,

that

is,

a

woma

!

Tige

wome

a

e

as

blessed

as

the

sea,

a

d

blessi

gs

come

atu

ally.

A

bo

tige

woma

has

a

tale

ted

appea

a

ce,

a

d

eve

ythi

g

comes

atu

ally.

上香上头香，福报自然来。

Whe

you

put

i

ce

se

o

you

head,

blessi

gs

will

come

atu

ally.